Ted RiversinILLUMINATION·Aug 11, 2021Going Viral Kills My ProductivityRevealing how to go viral and how not to deal with viral success — I can’t be the only one who’s addicted to watching their stats? I actively check them every 20 minutes, if not more frequently. Stats are a drug to me, I feed off them, they numb me, and I don’t end up doing a whole lot. …Writing6 min read
Ted RiversinA Con’s Tent·Jul 6, 20213 Signs You’re Having A Quarter Life CrisisA guide to getting through it and moving forward — My disappointment was insurmountable when I dropped out of University for the second time. It’s a familiar story, University was just too costly for me. My debts were spiraling out of control and no matter how much time I traded for money I couldn’t get it under control. Eventually, it…Life7 min read
Ted Rivers·Jul 22, 2020What it Really Feels Like to be GaslightedGaslighting is a type of abuse that can make you question your sanity. Narcissists love it, addicts make good use of it and your loved ones can use it to make your life hellish. It’s not a nice thing to be gaslighted. Gaslighting is when someone manipulates another person through…Mental Health7 min read
Ted RiversinAscent Publication·Aug 7, 2020It’s Time to Start Being Honest About Mental HealthWhen it comes to mental health it can be easy to hold our cards close to our chest. It’s a bit of a taboo subject at the best of times. It’s becoming more of the mainstream conversation but you may not feel comfortable being open about it. For years and…Mental Health5 min read
Ted Rivers·Jul 27, 2020Why I’m Swapping Facebook For Medium.I’ve deleted Facebook half a dozen times in as many years. I hate it, yet I kept bringing it back. It was an addiction and one I needed to break for the sake of my well being. If I’m being honest, I long for the days we still used MySpace. …Life8 min read
Ted Rivers·Aug 1, 2020Here’s Why Being Depressed is OKAY!Depression is synonymous with being sad but that doesn’t paint the whole picture. I think someone can be depressed and happy. In fact, I know they can. Hello! I consider myself to be living with depression. …Mental Health5 min read
Ted Rivers·Aug 1, 2020Philosophy Messed Me UpWhen I was selecting my subjects for GCSE my school had started to offer an As Level in Philosophy instead of a standard GCSE subject. It was the first year they had done so. I’ve always considered myself to be a thinker and had been drawn to the idea of…Life7 min read
Ted Rivers·Sep 7, 2020The Lessons Cobra Kai Teaches and Why You Should Listen To ThemI’d never seen the original Karate Kid so Cobra Kai, which is a continuation of the series picking up 34 years later, wasn’t really on my must-see list. This article contains spoilers for the end of The Karate Kid and mild spoilers for Cobra Kai. This article contains spoilers for…Life Lessons8 min read
Ted RiversinILLUMINATION·Sep 19, 2020Throw Out Everything You Own Immediately.A few weeks ago I was lying in bed in my small cramped studio apartment. I looked at the various things I’ve collected over the years. The best way to describe these things is as detritus. None of it meant anything to me anymore. It was waste. This isn’t an…Mental Health4 min read
Ted RiversinThe Startup·Jan 15, 2021It’s Time to Consider Working for YourselfHave you ever thought about being your own boss? Well, it’s easier than ever to make that a reality. Yet many of us are stuck in jobs that don’t respect us, don’t pay enough, and make us feel miserable. Stagnant wages, strict hours, and no room for promotion are a…Personal Development5 min read
Ted Rivers·Jan 18, 20215 Warning Signs From the Gaslighter-in-Chief Donald Trump You Need To Watch Out ForAmerica, the land of the free. Watching the last 4–5 years unfold in America hasn’t been easy. Lies are a form of political currency. The truth is no longer relevant. 280 characters is all that’s needed for fascism to rise. …Culture7 min read
Ted RiversinSexography·Jun 25, 2021How to Stop Anxiety Ruining Your ErectionsNever let your anxiety get in the way of a good time again. — “Did you guys have sex last night?” Some curious friends asked my girlfriend and me as we walked down the stairs. It was a house party and our relationship was very new so of course, people wanted the gossip. Immediately I stepped forward with my fists in the air like…Sex7 min read
Ted RiversinILLUMINATION·Mar 2, 2021If You’re Tired All The Time Don’t Push Yourself To CreateThis is how you never get burnt out again. Woohoo! You finally start getting some momentum. One of your articles has gone viral. You’ve nailed down a schedule, your writing is getting better, and then tragedy strikes — you’re too tired to do more. If you find that you’re tired…Health8 min read
Ted RiversinILLUMINATION·Apr 23, 2021Forget Everything You Know About Productivity And Read ThisProductivity as you know it is holding you back. — So you don’t know what productivity really is? That’s okay because I’ve spent a long time not really understanding it myself. Now that I finally have a better sense of what it is I’m 10x more productive than I have ever been. It would be rude of me to keep…Productivity6 min read
Ted RiversinMeld of Minds·Jun 10, 2021Withdrawing From Your Family and FriendsIt won’t ‘solve’ anything — It might be the single worst way to deal with your problems. Apart from maybe setting things on fire. I stopped talking to everyone and it led me down a path of despair and misery. Here’s why you should open up instead of closing off. I was brought up to…Self6 min read
Ted Rivers·Jun 15, 2021The Real Reason A Pay Rise Wasn’t in the BudgetIf you want a pay rise you’re going to have to give it to yourself — I was packing up my desk on my final day at work when my colleague entered the room looking a little deflated. “What’s happened?” I queried. She had just asked for a pay rise and it had been refused on the grounds that they don’t have it in the budget…Money5 min read
Ted RiversinCurious·Jun 21, 2021Learning to Stand Still is the First Step to Moving ForwardHow to stop seeking positive experiences and live them instead — I pack up my things and move every year — sometimes twice a year. I’m constantly looking for what’s next instead of enjoying what I have in the now. Home never feels like home because I don’t let it, the moment I’m settled the house hunt begins anew. …Self Improvement4 min read
Ted RiversinSexography·Aug 6, 2021Five Myths About the Penis You Need to Stop BelievingDo your little friend a favor and show him love, not lies. — Big, small, wide, curved, hooded, circumcised, the penis is one of the most unique parts of a man's body. Yet rarely do we embrace the fascinating features that make our members so distinctive. …Sex6 min read